Mindset

Nerds run the world

Why Nerds Run The World

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Look around, think about who is making all the calls, then look behind that person. Typically, it is a nerd. For starters, look at the richest persons in the world. Look at the most powerful countries in the world, advances are made by nerds. Politically, whether you agree with one party or another, they are funded by nerds on both sides. The fact is, while there may be debates on the value of going to college, there is no doubt that nerds are running the world. Further, as we are in the computer age, nerds will continue to do so. Crypto and the metaverse are only recent examples of the power of being a nerd.

The Cool Kids

There is a saying, “he who laughs last laughs best.” For those who are intellectually gifted, this is certainly true. Cool kids have fun early in life, but it is the nerds who excel as adults. Whether your are the sports star or the cool kid that connects well with others, your early social years will be great, primarily in high school. However, for many cool kids, this will be the height of their influence. For nerds, high school is typically the last years of hell. Once high school is over, the world opens up, because intellect is valued.

Nerds

Let us look at the richest people in the world. Warren Buffet, Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, Elon musk, they are all nerds. The fact is, they are at the cutting edge. They are coming up with new ideas and inventions that revolutionize the world and have in turn made them very wealthy. As is often true, money is power. With their monetary power and position, nerds are able to influence every part of life.

It is this wealth that is being used to run the world. When you have billions of dollars at your disposal, your pet projects are very impactful. Whether this is to go to space or to create a foundation to pursue a specific purpose. With funding, what is important to you become important to others. Your dreams shape the world that not only you live in, but that we all live in.

Crypto is one of the newest examples. Let us think of bitcoin that only a few years ago was worthless. Today, there are many different crypto currencies and this invention has made many millionaires. For the most part, crypto was invented by nerds and has become mainstream, making many ridiculously wealthy. We also now have NFTs, which are being sold for millions and let us not forget about the newly created metaverse. As the computer information age pushes on, nerds will continue to dominate.

Political Reach

Nerds are not only successful in the business world, but also the political world. A lot of those in political power today were not well adjusted in their earlier life. Yes, they were and still are nerds. But even if some of today’s political figures were well adjusted, look at who these politicians take their direction from. They take their direction not from the masses, but from the wealthy who are likely to be nerds. To run political campaigns, you need money. As noted above, who have the money? Nerds through their business successes have plenty of discretionary income to donate and shape the agenda of every political campaign. Even when you look to todays sport stars, look at who are employing them. Nerds are the owner of sport teams, sport arenas and are the bosses of the jocks you watch in amazement.

Why are they so successful?

Nerds flex their brains

Reasons

Not being in the in crowd have a lot of advantages. You read that correctly. Not being popular can be an advantage in life. It teaches you important lessons in survival and how to be self reliant.

The fact that many nerds are not in the in crowd allow them to spend more time working on their dreams. Nerds have more time to be themselves and know themselves because they do not have to succumb to social norms. They are essentially able to figure out who they are and what they are good at and just do it. Nerds have the freedom to become experts in the difficult, the new and the cutting edge.

Further, most nerds find comfort in knowledge. So not being invited to all the parties or social activities give nerds more time to hone their skills, in this case knowledge of a subject. They become masters of a subject area. Once they are masters of a subject area and confident in their skills they are motivated to show the world.

Because many nerds have been ostracized or physically intimidated, they operate with a chip on their shoulder and have a competitive drive to prove and show how good they are. All this leads to people who are very confident at what they do once they find that thing. Often times, these nerds are some of the most ruthless individuals that you will come across. They strive to be the best and often times, do not accept failure. Think of Elon Musk, Steve Jobs and Bill Gates.

These are some of the reasons why so many nerds have achieved the highest of business success, amass billions and strongly influence our every day life. 

Conclusion

Look around, think about who is making all the calls, then look behind that person. Typically, it is a nerd. For starters, look at the richest persons in the world. Look at the most powerful countries in the world, advances are made by nerds. Politically, whether you agree with one party or another, they are funded by nerds on both sides. The fact is, while there may be debates on the value of going to college, there is no doubt that nerds are running the world. Further, as we are in the computer age, nerds will continue to do so. Crypto and the metaverse are only recent examples of the power of being a nerd.

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Friends

Friends Influence Your Success And Wealth

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Show me your five closest friends and I can provide a very accurate description of you. The fact of the matter is that the friends we have not only tells us who we are generally. Our friends influence who we are and who we will become. Yes, those closest to you will impact who you will become. Peer pressure  in proximity is strong, so is the influence of mentors and leaders. Choose your friends wisely because they will influence not only your career success but also the wealth you will attain in the future.

Friends

We may deny it, but those around us have the power to influence us. We are constantly picking up on cues from those around us. These cues subconsciously inform and shape our behavior. These behaviors over time become habits, and our habits determine who we become. The influences of our friends are not only behavioral. Who we have around us affect our world view, the way we think and the way we feel about ourselves. As such, our success and in a sense our wealth in life will come down to the people we choose to spend our time with.

Think for a second about the company kept by your financial heroes. Now, contrast this with the financially illiterate and those living on the edge. The friends kept by these two groups are diametrically oppose.

At this moment, consider who are your closest friends. Think of their attributes and how these friends have affected your life. What habits do these friends have that you want? Also identify attributes that you do not wish to adapt? Mostly, do you need new friends? 

Success

To be successful, be around successful people. If you want to be in shape, hang out with those who are healthy. If you want to be happy, surround yourself with happy people. We become those who are around us.

If you want to build wealth and become financially independent, do not have a circle of people around you who are struggling and lack financial discipline. Instead, associate yourself with positive, focused people. Be friends with those who are committed to constant improvement and the pursuit of the best in life. Have friends who will facilitate your journey to wealth and financial independence.

Choose Your Friends Wisely

Remember, while you may not be able to choose your family, you do choose your friends. To be friends with another person, you must agree to have this individual in your life. And while the decision to cut people out of your life may be difficult, tough decisions must be made for you to achieve your goals. 

Be the CEO of your life and demote or fire your friends as needed to achieve your goals. If not, do not be surprise when your ambitions, goals and position in life are at the same level as those around you.

Choose your friends wisely

Conclusion

Show me your five closest friends and I can provide a very accurate description of you. The fact of the matter is that the friends we have not only tells us who we are generally. Our friends influence who we are and who we will become. Yes, those closest to you will impact who you will become. Peer pressure  in proximity is strong, so is the influence of mentors and leaders. Choose your friends wisely because they will influence not only your career success but also the wealth you will attain in the future.

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Retirement plan

Do not Become Someone Else’s Retirement Plan

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No matter how hard you work or how much money you earn, you are only a few bad choices from finding yourself in the poor house. Sometimes, the decisions that we make are in view of perceived obligations. For example, many financial decisions are made in view of obligations to family and friends. On your path to financial independence and early retirement, do not become someone’s retirement plan.

Focus On Your Retirement Plan

As the statement goes, put on our oxygen masks first before the person next to  you, including family. This also applies to your plans for retirement. You may be able to make head way in saving toward your retirement by living below your means, saving, and investing. However, it is also easy for a family member or two to constantly ask, manipulate or steal what you have saved. The stories are easily available if you perform a simply search, and should serve as a warning.

What Is Yours Is Theirs

There are so many stories of an individual or a nuclear family making progress by living below their means, saving and investing over time. As this family rises and increases their wealth, it is only natural for families and friends to notice, and notice they will. We can try all we want to hide success, but others will notice how you live your life. While you may try to be the millionaire next door, your close family knows better. While you may drive the standard car and live in a standard house, your family will be well aware of your job and will likely have researched your salary. It is only a matter of time before assumptions are made with regard to your wealth. With assumptions, it is common for others to begin to think that what is yours is also theirs.

As knowledge of your life is shared by family and close friends, you will be seen in a different light. When financial hiccups occurs, you become their bank. If they are having issues with housing, they will show up at your door. If you do not take steps to stop the initial requests or actions, you will pay for it later.

Of course, the proximity to family and friends will matter. The closer you are to those with a specific personality type, the faster the devolution into others thinking that what is yours is theirs. The further away you are, the less interaction and the less issues you may have.

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Do not allow others to block your financial flow

Reason Does Not Matter

It really does not matter if you and others all had the same opportunities. It does not really matter if you choose to live below your means while others live it up. You may sacrifice all you want to maintain your life and that of your family, but it is simply human nature for those around you to think and believe that what is yours is also theirs. Especially when others believe that you have more than you need or that you do not deserve what you have.

What To Do

The fact is, you must learn to say no. You cannot become someone else’s retirement plan. You must stand up for yourself and your family. Others may claim that you are mean, but you must put your oxygen mask on before others. You cannot find yourself bank rolling other peoples lives, especially if these individuals do not understand how hard you have worked for what you have. 

It is all around us. Others have nice cars, vacations and homes that dwarfs the size and costs of yours. However, these are the first to reach out for aid and have a deep seated belief that what is yours is theirs. When times are hard, why do you have so much and they have so little, even though when times were good they had more than you and in effect wasted it.

We are not saying that you should be selfish and not help others. Help others and give. Success is not achieved alone and in isolation. What we are saying is, know what you are doing. Know the consequences of your actions. Know what saying yes today will mean for tomorrow. Do not become another person’s retirement plan. Know when to say no.

Conclusion

No matter how hard you work or how much money you earn, you are only a few bad choices from finding yourself in the poor house. Sometimes, the decisions that we make are in view of perceived obligations. For example, many financial decisions are made in view of obligations to family and friends. On your path to financial independence and early retirement, do not become someone’s retirement plan.

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Just say no

Now, Just Say No

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When was the last time that you suck it up and just say no to your children? As we move toward the next year, again we enter the season of spending. One of the major driving force behind the excessive spending during this time of the year is the effort to please our children. However, spending money that you do not have not only hurts you, it also hurts your children. By saying no and living within your needs, you will be teaching your children delayed gratification, self control and impact their future for the better.

Saying One Thing And Doing Another

It is always amazing how the same folks who announce that they do not have the funds typically have the latest and greatest. It is amazing how the co-worker who is struggling financially has the required funds to take a vacation. It is also interesting how not only do they have the latest toys and gadgets, but so do their children. Where are they getting it from? 

Let us not speculate. However, it does offer an interesting view into other people’s habits. This is not new, the act of saying one thing, yet doing another. With this in mind, why are we surprise when our children act in a similar manner?

Just Say No To Your Children

It is always difficult to tell our children no. It is difficult for us to punish them. However, at a certain point we must perform our roles as parents for their growth and development. Just as you work with your children with their school work, teaching them how to play a sport or how to be a contributing part of society, so must we say no when it is required.  Financial literacy should be apart of their development.

In the holiday season, just say no. Whenever you are asked to spend what you do not have, just say no. We understand that this is easy to say but difficult to do. This is especially the case when your children have friends who are receiving the new and latest toys. In some cases we satisfy our children’s wants to prevent a tantrum or a melt down. For many parents, it is also a matter of ensuring that their children fit in socially. However, if we are teaching our children to have what others have no matter the cost, financially and otherwise, are we really doing them a service?

If our children’s friends have the newest and most expensive phones or other electronic devices, should your children also have those items? If you cannot afford it, you must have a conversation with your children. It may be the most opportune time to discuss money and how money works.

saying no
saying no

Think Long Term

If we are purchasing material items that we cannot afford, we are not only putting our financial future in jeopardy. Our acts are also putting our children’s financial future in jeopardy as well. We are essentially teaching our children that they can purchase things that they cannot afford.  Do not be surprise by our children’s decision to put things on credit and overspend in the future. Note that our children are watching. Our children model their behaviors after what they see and hear. Believe it our not, we can have a huge influence on their future spending habits. Consider the current state of finance today, it is no wonder we have so many finically illiterate folks. 

Let us make our children’s financial literacy apart of what we are teaching. Let us act as parents. Like with school and so many other tasks, we are the parent and not your children’s friend. Let us aim to try and find a way to teach them such that they can in the future be better than we are. Let us give them the tools to make better decisions.

Conclusion

When was the last time that you suck it up and just say no to your children? As we move toward another year, again we enter the season of spending. One of the major driving force behind the excessive spending during this time of the year is the effort to please our children. However, spending money that you do not have not only hurts you, it also hurts your children. By saying no and living within your needs, you will be teaching your children delayed gratification, self control and impact their future for the better.

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Empty piggy bank

If You Are Feeling Broke, It’s Ok

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If you are feeling broke, know that it is ok. The feeling of not doing enough or that you are behind as compared to others is a normal. As human beings, we are hard wired to compare ourselves to others. It is natural. It is also natural to feel like you are not where others are when you look at their material possessions. But keep in mind, you are typically only seeing what others are willing to show you. You are not seeing what is going on behind the scenes. Many engage in fake it till you make it and  project a wealthy facade, but are in tough financial straits. Focus on you and do not concern yourself with what others are doing.

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It’s ok to feel broke…. but are you?

The Story

You have likely heard a similar story, but here we go. Around the corner is a neighbor who has one of the most beautiful homes, with an up-kept yard and with hedges always cut. This neighbor has two kids, a dog and two luxury cars which are replaced every few years. The neighbors are very social in the neighborhood, for gatherings, they are the life of the party. These folks take vacations each year to exotic locations, essentially these neighbors are the envy of the neighborhood. They are the picture of the American dream. They exude confidence, money, success and privilege.

Eventually, you may begin to notice some cracks in the happiness of your neighbor and this goes one of two ways. (1) They may stop attending certain events and may downsize the cars and eventually note that they are moving because of work. (2) If they chose to keep up appearances, eventually you or another neighbor may begin to get inquiries about who lives at their home. Typically, these are the early signs of someone hunting for your neighbors assets. It may be their cars or a boat in the back yard. Eventually, one or both cars will be towed away and repossessed. Sooner or later, a sign will be placed on the home that it is in foreclosure. 

It is amazing how often this story plays out.  Keep this story in mind when you begin to think or feel broke or inadequate as compared to others.

You May Not Be As Broke As You Think

The events above is typically shocking to all and will be the subject of much gossip. Some may enjoy seeing this fall from grace but many will be left reflecting on their previously perceived short comings. The fact is simple, you only see what others want you to see. If your neighbor has luxury cars you have no idea if they are leased or owned. You have no idea if they had previously won the lottery, you also have no idea if they have inherently wealth or are up to their eye balls in debt. The moral of the story, do not compare yourself to others.

Live your own life and stay in your lane. Be happy for those who are doing well or appear that they are doing well. Know what you are doing and focus on your financial goals and not what others are doing. It is ok to feel broke, it is normal to compare yourself to others. But do not act in a manner to compete with others. Live your life. Stay in your lane.

Do You

If you are pursing early retirement, do so. While it is difficult not to compare yourself to others, keep focus on your goals. If your aim is to save 50% or more of your income, understand that you may then not have the nicest cars, fashion or take the same vacations as someone who do not save as much as you do. Just remember that we are all on different paths. You may feel broke or inadequate, but your bank account may say otherwise.

Whenever you feel financially inadequate, take a look at your assets. Look at your bank account and know that you are one day closer to your financial goals.

Conclusion

If you are feeling broke, know that it is ok. The feeling of not doing enough or that you are behind as compared to others is a normal. As human beings, we are hard wired to compare ourselves to others. It is natural. It is also natural to feel like you are not where others are when you look at their material possessions. But keep in mind, you are typically only seeing what others are willing to show you. You are not seeing what is going on behind the scenes. Many engage in fake it till you make it and  project a wealthy facade, but are in tough financial straits. Focus on you and do not concern yourself with what others are doing.

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Net worth

Do You Know Your Net Worth?

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We are often hung up on how much someone is making, the car that they are driving and the house that they are living in. Rarely do we consider their net worth, or ours for that matter. This may be because net worth is much harder to determine from just looking at someone. The fact is, the most flashy among us typically have the least wealth. If you know and focus on your net worth instead of material things, you will make decisions to ensure that your net worth gradually increases over time. Knowledge is power!

Know your net worth
Know your net worth!

Do You Know Your Net Worth?

On a basic level, your net worth is equal to your assets minus your liabilities. Unsurprisingly, the younger you are, the more likely that your net worth will be zero or below. But this does not mean that you should keep the full picture of your financial situation in the background. Knowledge is power!

If I asked what is your salary, it is likely that you would be able to provide the answer. If I asked you for an estimate of your credit card debt, mortgage balance or student loans, I am certain that you can provide an estimate. What happens if I asked about your net worth? Could you provide an estimate? I figure the answer is likely no.

It is important to know your net worth because with this information, you can knowledgeably plot your financial path forward. If you do not know what your current financial situation is, how can you plan your financial future? How can you determine how and where to allocate funds? The fact is, you cannot plan your financial future without knowing your net worth. 

What Happens When You Do Not Know Your Net Worth?

Have you ever heard the following scenario: A family having the largest home on the block, having two or more luxury cars and who goes on vacations yearly, goes broke in view of the smallest of financial hiccups. How does this happen?

It is always a shock to see someone with the largest home on the block, who has the best suits, the luxury cars and the yearly vacations go broke when they lose their job. This is surprising but it should not be. You see, the people who are watching and growing their net worth are not spending big on cars, homes and vacations. It is really not the case. If you are spending so much on these things, it is much harder to grow your wealth. You are more likely to grow your debt. With increase debt, your chances of living pay check to pay check increases, no matter how much money you are making.  This is where the house of cards related to a fake wealthy facade will begin to crumble. 

Eventually, the debt will overcome your take home pay. If you are unlucky enough to lose your employment, the house of cards will fall at an accelerated pace until you go into foreclosure, lose your cars. At some point, the facade of being fake wealthy will disappear.

Focus On The Big Picture

The problem with not knowing your net worth is that you are likely not making informed financial decisions. You are making financial decisions based on an incomplete view of your finances. For example, the problem we all typically run into is our focus on salary. We all aim to maximize our salary but may not be paying attention to the costs that potentially goes with it. Think about it this way, if your salary is $100,000 with no retirement contributions from your employer vs a salary of $95,000 with $10,000 automatic contributions to your retirement by your employer. Which do you choose? Are you seeing the bigger picture?

Further, in some instances, it may be beneficial to pay off debt based on the interest that is accruing rather than investing/saving. But without a complete picture of your finances, are you making the right decisions? Knowing your net worth provides a constant check and awareness of where you are financially. Knowledge is power!

Conclusion

We are often hung up on how much someone is making, the car that they are driving and the house that they are living in. Rarely do we consider their net worth, or ours for that matter. The fact is, the most flashy among us typically have the least net worth. If you know and focus on your wealth instead of material things, you will make decisions to ensure that your wealth gradually increases over time. Knowledge is power!

See your complete financial situation and make decisions that will provide financial security.

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Back to school

Back To School And On The Money

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It is that amazing time of the year again. Each year, we all enter this phase of transition from summer to fall. As the leaves change, so does our routine. Here comes the back to school rush. Throughout the country, the months of August and September play a seminal role in getting the school year started. With this transition comes the expenses of new school gear and traditional school supplies. Do not forget about the disruption to your typical schedule and the added traffic of school buses and frantic parents trying to get their children to school. Yes, back to school here we come. But do not allow the new school year to affect your financial goals.

Back to school
Keep your eyes on your financial goals

The Relief And Stress Of Back To School

For parents, it is that time of the year where life becomes less stressful in some respects, and more stressful in others. In one aspect, the kids are out of the house (covid permitting) and you know where they are. They are being housed in a school for at least about 7hrs. The kids are also being kept on the education treadmill of learning and developing new social skills. 

On the stressful side of back to school are the expenses of extracurricular activities and the friends that that your child will make and who will have influence over time on their lives while you are not there. For their friends, you as a parent has to establish your home, what is expected of your children and that should guide them. On the expense side, it is also your choice.

The expense associated with your child’s activities is a choice that you are making. You are the parent, it is not your child’s choice, it is yours. If you sign your child up for an expensive sport, do not complain, it is your choice. If you have to leave work early to attend an event, again, it is your choice. When you are making a decision to live within your means, save, invest and grow financially, your kids are apart of your house and how you allocate funds on their behave will significantly influence if you will achieve your financial goals.

Just Starting Out

From kindergarten to 12th grade, you as the parent are generally financially responsible. After that point, the guide rails are gradually taken off. For those with kids going into kindergarten, on a financial level it may be your first introduction to the early school supplies which at this point may include clothes, shoes, and electronics. But for many on the financial front, this is a blessing. Gone are the days of paying for private pre K which can cost more than $20,000 per year. Now you may have public schools to contend with that are free if you are not continuing with private education.

This is not the time to find a place to spend the funds that you had previously used for pre-k. Now is the time to find new investment opportunities, save and build wealth. This can be in the form of investing in the stock market, saving to fully fund your emergency fund or continuing to use the money for your child by having a 529 plan or something similar. Now is the time to save, because if your child pursue higher education, you will pay one way or the other.

If you are continuing with private education, then you will be spending more as you move from pre K to kindergarten. It is not uncommon for such cost to come close to or above $30,000 per year. If you have made the decision to enter private school, it is a choice that while expensive it is one that can be beneficial to your child based on where you are located. However, be mindful of the expense as it accumulates over years.

Returning To School

If you have a child who is returning to school, they will likely be thrilled. Thrilled because they are heading back to school after spending the summer with you. Now they get to jump back into the routine and to see their friends. By going back to school, they are essentially returning back to their lives. For children in this category, back to school is something that they have been looking forward to all summer.

But even for you, it is important to keep an eye on the expenses. Again, if your child is returning to private school, ensure that the expense fits within your plan. If your child is returning to public school, be mindful of the environment and opportunities that they are returning to. Whether public or private, pay particular attention to the extracurricular activities that your child will be involved with and the related cost. You want a developed adult at the end of the journey, but not a situation that will put you in financial difficulties for the future.

What ever the situation that you find yourself in this year, do not allow this transition back to school to take you off your financial path. If financial independence is your goal, maintain this goal and live below your means, save, invest and repeat.

Conclusion

It is that amazing time of the year again. Each year, we all enter this phase of transition from summer to fall. As the leaves change, so does our routine. Here comes the back to school rush. Throughout the country, the months of August and September play a seminal role in getting the school year started. With this transition comes the expenses of new school gear and traditional school supplies. Do not forget about the disruption to your typical schedule and the added traffic of school buses and frantic parents trying to get their children to school. Yes, back to school here we come. But do not allow the new school year to affect your financial goals.

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Stay positive

Stay Positive And Being Positive

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It is amazing how much better our days are when we stay positive. It is simple, when you give off good vibes/energy, it is likely to return to you. Just think of how a smile will almost always be responded to with a smile. On the other hand, with a frown, you will likely get a reciprocal emotion in return. Achieve your goals and impact those around you by staying positive.

Staying Positive Is Not About Ignoring Reality

When you are being positive, it is really not about ignoring reality. The fact of the matter is, life is happening around us. While there are a lot of bad things on going, there is also the good. Here, we are not saying that there is always a bright side and that the worst of an event should be ignored. What we are saying is, stay positive, while acknowledging the not so pleasant part of life. 

It is important to understand the things that we can change and then take action to change these things to favor what it is that you are trying to achieve. Be present for what is taking place around you but stay positive and maintain perspective.

Stay positive, be positive

Staying Positive Is A Choice

No matter what is happening in life, it is your choice whether or not you will stay positive. Take as an example being cut off by someone on the road. Yes, the first reaction is to get angry, be upset and as it is common for many of us to pull up next to the person that cut us off to show our displeasure. Others may take it much further and that is where we see episodes of road rage. The above was all a choice. The decisions that we make have a direct impact on our lives and the lives of those around us.

Let us approach the above situation differently. Following being cut off, you could choose to stay positive, be thankful that you did not get into an accident and continue on your way. Note that being cut off is only a few second of your day. You have so many more thousands of seconds in this day. Do not allow an action by another to ruin the rest of your day or your life. It is really your choice. 

Stay Positive  And Create Opportunity

Have you realized how difficult it is to be creative when your mood is in the gutter. If you accept that there is no way out of a situation or dwell on the worst of a situation, you will never be able to lift your head up to see all the opportunities. It is only when you stay positive and keep perspective, that you are able to fully appreciate the entirety of a situation and be able to formulate a plan to take advantage of what is available.

In some instance, instead of focusing on what you do not have, focus on how lucky you are to have what you do. Then go and make use of what you have to exploit the opportunities present. Further, do not focus on your failures, learn from them. Stay positive and learn where things went wrong and adjust your strategy and approach accordingly. Stay positive and see a learning opportunity in everything that occurs in life, good or bad.

Your mind is a powerful tool. If you stay positive, you not only affect those around you, but also those around those who are around you. One person does make a difference, choose to be that difference. Start by having a positive attitude.

Conclusion

It is amazing how much better our days are when we stay positive. It is simple, when you give off good vibes/energy, it is likely to return to you. Just think of how a smile will almost always be responded to with a smile. On the other hand, with a frown, you will likely get a reciprocal emotion in return. Achieve your goals and impact those around you by staying positive.

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Generational wealth

Building Generational Wealth: Part 1

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At a certain point, we should take a step back and stop thinking about ourselves, and begin to think about our legacy. We should begin to think and live in such a way so as to build generational wealth. Luckily, if you are living a life with your financial future in mind, building generational wealth does not take much effort. Just keep on doing what you are currently doing. Know that each action you take today is not just for you, it is for those who will come after you. Build a stable foundation and provide a spring board for those who come after.

Generational Wealth Begins With You

No matter how rich or poor you are today, building generational wealth begins with you. If you are wealthy, learning how to grow, maintain and not completely erode your wealth is important. If you are poor, start today to build a stable foundation. Rich or poor, to build generational wealth, you must have something to pass on to the next generation. It takes, saving, investing and reducing your debt. The same concepts relevant to you building wealth, are vital for keeping and passing on wealth.

Increase Your Wealth

When it comes to saving money, the math will never work if your expenses are higher than your income. To reduce expense, consider moving to a smaller home to reduce rent/mortgage, moving closer to work to reduce the cost of commuting, bringing your lunch to work, stop/reduce eating out, cut your cable or other subscription costs. But do not forget the other side of the equation.

To increase wealth, do not only reduce debt, also increase your income. For example, work toward a raise, invest in your education and return to school/learn a skill to get a better position or research a side hustle that may provided additional income? The goal is to increase your income such that your income is higher than your expenses. 

Begin Saving

If you have gotten your income above your expenses, it is time to save. Many fall into the trap of spending their disposable income each month. Do not fall into this trap, remember, your goal is generational wealth, not to simply reduce your expenses and increasing your income. Your goal is to save and grow your wealth. So save your money.

There are a number of tools available that facilitates saving money. For example, you can automate your savings by automatically transferring money from your pay to a savings account or you may save in a high yield savings account that provides higher interest rates than the typical brick and mortar banks. Research the options available to maximize and grow your savings. Further, to consistently save, while it is not required, a budget may provide a financial guide.

Saving Money And Your Future

Now that you are saving, do look towards the future and your financial health. Look to paying off debts, investing, and contributing to your retirement. Saving is only the first step on the path to growing financially and financial independence.

Generational Wealth Is Built On Investing

Generational wealth is built on investing. Investing in your future is an extension of investing in yourself. Once you begin to look to the financial markets, look to learning more about the opportunities that are available to you. Educate yourself.

Retirement

No matter your age, begin thinking about your retirement and related investment options. In thinking about your retirement, you will no doubt hear about traditional IRAs, roth IRAs, SEP, roth 401Ks, 401Ks, 403Bs, 457Bs and TSPs to name a few. Do not simply get lost in the alphabet soup of different retirement plans. Do your due diligence. An investment in your retirement plan education is invaluable to your financial future.

Do Not Give Up Free Money 

If you have access to an employer match, take advantage. Employer 401K match can come in a variety of shapes and sizes. In one instance, the employer will match a portion of your contribution up to a limit. Typically, this limit is represented as a percentage of your salary. In some instances, an employer may match your contribution if you contribute or irrespective of if you contribute.

If your employer provides a 401K match only if you contribute to your 401K, ensure that you are contributing at least up to that threshold. An employer 401K match is free money. Take advantage. Free money will only turbo charge your journey to building generational wealth.

Generational Wealth Is Investing In The Future

Generational Wealth
Generational Wealth

Think about your legacy, your children and their future. To put your kids on the right path and build generational  wealth, think about a 529 plan. By contributing to a 529 plan, you are able to offset some or all costs associated with a college education. In many States, two 529 plans are available, an investment plan or a prepaid plan.

  • The investment plan allows you to contribute by buying and selling shares offered by the State or the State’s agent (similar to investing in the stock market).
  • The prepaid plan is based on the cost of attending a college. Here, you are prepaying the cost of attendance.

While 529 plans are not deductible on your federal tax filings, many States allow you to deduct a set portion of your 529 contribution from your State tax filings. Essentially, your State may be helping you to build generational wealth.

Conclusion

At a certain point, we should take a step back and stop thinking about ourselves, and begin to think about our legacy. We should begin to think and live in such a way so as to build generational wealth. Luckily, if you are living a life with your financial future in mind, building generational wealth does not take much effort. Just keep on doing what you are currently doing. Know that each action you take today is not just for you, it is for those who will come after you. Build a stable foundation and provide a spring board for those who come after.

In part 2, we will discuss how to maintain wealth.

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Father's Day

Have The Father’s Day Money Talk

Money Maroon

For father’s day, instead of falling into the commercialization trend, let’s make our fathers proud. Have a father’s day money talk. This talk will not only impact your father and show him that you are thinking about his future, but will also help you organize yourself to better care for him.  Buying shirts, cards, or tools is a nice gesture. But having a financial chat with dad is impactful. Be impactful on this father’s day and show dad how much you truly care.

The Sacrifice

On this father’s day, remember the financial sacrifices that your father has made over time. Think back to how much your father worked and his pains. Yet, he continued on. While you are at it, it should become very clear why some people stay at jobs that they hate. At times, some people will stay at jobs that they hate in the name of love and responsibility. He did it for you.

Father’s Day And Financial Education

Many have the luck of having a dad that inspires. For some, this is manifested in financial success or the search for financial success based on lessons learned. For example, save, invest, live below your means. It may be in the form of literal education or an education based on observation. Was it his struggle or was it his drive and position as an authoritative figure who did what was best for the family that motivates you to become financially independent? For some, it was the unfortunate mismanagement of finances that provided the teaching lessons that motivates today. Whatever your reason, I am confident that your father contributed and continues to contribute to your reasons for reading a financial independence blog and this article.

While your father may not be your biological father in the context of the man who took care of you, we all have a father, show him that you care.

Father's Day
Happy Father’s Day

Having The Father’s Day Talk

With all that your father has done to influence your financial life, it is time to have a father’s day money talk. Check on his current financial situation and his future plans. Although it may be difficult to talk to family about money, it is important to start.

Previous generations had the now acclaimed three legs to their retirement stool: (1) personal savings, (2) social security and (3) a company pension. Over the years, the three legs have been significantly weakened.

First, many have very little to no personal savings; second, as it currently stands, the social security program is teetering on the edge of insolvency; and  third, for the most part, company pensions are a thing of the past. Taken together, the baby boomer generation have little saved for retirement, no pension plan and are dependent on social security. This is the reason for the talk.

The Talk

To have the money talk with dad, there is no reason to be aggressive. Do not forget that it is father’s day. If you approach your father’s finances aggressively, your father is likely to get defensive. The point here is to begin a conversation or continue the conversation such that you know where your dad is financially. More importantly, these conversations will aid your financial planing.

We cannot control what another person does, especially our parents. However, if we can make them aware of potential issues that may be on the horizon, maybe they can and will take action to change course. 

The fact is, you as the child may be responsible for your parents during retirement. It is important that you begin taking steps to mitigate the impact on your financial future by talking to your dad this father’s day. 

The Best Father’s Day Gift

For most of us, as adults, it becomes a struggle to get the perfect gift for dad. Guess what, you have most likely provided a lot of his material wants over the years. There are only so may cruises, trips, tools, shirt or gadgets that you can gift dad. At this point, the best father’s day gift may be just showing that you care by having an important conversation. Instead of gifting something that will be used for only a day or a month, have an impactful financial conversation.

Conclusion

For father’s day, instead of falling into the commercialization trend, let’s make our fathers proud. Have a father’s day money talk with dad. This talk will not only impact your father and show him that you are thinking about his future, but will also help you organize yourself to better care for him.  Buying shirts, cards, or tools is a nice gesture. But having a financial chat with dad is impactful. Be impactful on this father’s day and show dad how much you truly care.

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