Wealth

Be Work optional

Be Work Optional And Have The Best Job

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The best job to have is one that you do not need. The reasons are easily apparent if you think about it.  The less reliant you are on your job, the more comfortable you can be in the workplace. When your job is optional, your boss and those above you cannot take advantage of you. If they try, you can simply quit. Essentially, with work optional, you can make ongoing decisions that are in your best interest. If you are an employee, it is important to remember, no matter how much they love you, you are replaceable.

If you do not believe me, consider the rapid layoffs that have occurred in 2022. Think of those twitter employees in 2022. From top to bottom, you are replaceable. Your employment is at the whim of someone else. If your livelihood does not depend on your job, you are free.  Aim to be work optional.

Being An Employee

In the United States, for many, employment is at will. Which means for any reason, the company can fire you. It is that easy. If someone does not like you, you can be replaced. Many companies, to avoid a law suit for discrimination or retaliation, will build a case for removing employees before actually firing them.

When building a case, companies and their agents, yes your manager, will become more vocal against you. All your missteps will be documented. If you are late for a meeting, no matter the reason, it will be noted. Someone does not like your tone, it will be documented. If you disagree with others, the company will view you as not being a team player. You will begin to hear criticisms. The aim here is to let you know that you are not doing a good job such that when you are let go you do not think to sue.

But some companies build cases in a more blatant way. You may have received great reviews previously, and all of a sudden a bad review. That should be a warning signal to prepare yourself. Sometimes, you may have absolutely no contact with your manger or supervisor and they drop a bad review on you. In some of these cases, the managers will actually blame employees for the lack of contact. 

The Elon Musk Situation

You may encounter an Elon Musk situation. You may be in the unfortunate situation where another company buys your employer. Your role may be redundant. In these cases, all your good will and hard work goes out the door. The new owner will view you as a cost center. The point is, if your company wants to get rid of you, they will. 

Protecting Yourself

As life is unpredictable, plan ahead and protect yourself. At least from the financial stand point, the best way to do this is by becoming  work optional. This way, no matter what your boss or your bosses boss decides, you will be ok. 

If you lose your job today, how would your life change? If you have a family, this is a question that you should be thinking about often. Do you have enough in an emergency fund? How far are you away from financial independence? Instead of rushing back into a job that you may not like, can you take your time and find something that you like to do? Another question is, was your job optional.

Work Optional

Work optional is another way of noting that you are financially independent. By being financially independent, you can work if you choose to, or not. You are work optional. If you have a job, the job is optional. If you happen to be fired, you can pick up your things and graciously exit your job and sit at home if you need to. Strive to be work optional.

Conclusion

The best job to have is one that you do not need. The reasons are easily apparent if you think about it.  The less reliant you are on your job, the more comfortable you can be in the workplace. When your job is optional, your boss and those above you cannot take advantage of you. If they try, you can simply quit. Essentially, with work optional, you can make ongoing decisions that are in your best interest. If you are an employee, it is important to remember, no matter how much they love you, you are replaceable.

If you do not believe me, consider the rapid layoffs that have occurred in 2022. Think of those twitter employees in 2022. From top to bottom, you are replaceable. Your employment is at the whim of someone else. If your livelihood does not depend on your job, you are free.  Aim to be work optional.

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Buying Time

Start Buying Time Now

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Quickly calculate your net worth. After calculating your net worth, divide your net worth by your average spend per year. The resulting number of years is what you have bought back. If you decide to quit your job today, this is how long you could potentially go without working if all else stays constant. Now knowing this, how many years have you bought back? Buying time is akin to financial independence. At a certain point, you will have bought back so much time that you will no longer need to work. This is the aim.

Know Your Net Worth

On a basic level, your net worth is equal to your assets minus your liabilities. Unsurprisingly, the younger you are, the more likely that your net worth will be zero or below. But this does not mean that you should keep the full picture of your financial situation in the background. Knowledge is power! 

By knowing your net worth, you are able to gauge where you are as an individual. By knowing your net worth, you can individually gauge your progress towards your financial goals. Having a home or a specific car may be a goal, but your ultimate financial goals are inextricably link to your net worth, not a salary, home or a car. It is important to know your net worth because with this information, you can knowledgeably plot your financial path forward. If you do not know what your current financial situation is, how can you plan your financial future? How can you determine how and where to allocate funds? The fact is, you cannot plan your financial future without knowing your net worth. Know your net worth, use money as the tool it is  and buy time.

Money Is A Tool

Money is truly nothing but a tool. As such, you should aim to use your money to accomplish tasks. This should be done the same way that you use other tools. For example, if you have a hammer, it does not just sit around and do nothing. The hammer is always kept in working condition ready to bang in nails. In the same manner, money does no good just sitting around. Money should be in working condition and ready to be applied to accomplish tasks. For you who are financial minded, the game of money is about buying time. Each dollar you spending is time you are losing and each dollar you earn is time you are gaining. The time you gain is related to time that you need not work.

View Your Money As Buying Time

Each dollar you spend, consider how long you will need to work to get that money back. I guarantee that you will not buy certain items if this analysis is done before each purchase you make. If you are making $10 an hour, that $200 shoe is equal to 20 hours of your time. With taxes and other deductions from your paycheck, it is actually a bit more of your time. Now, when looked at in these terms, is that $200 shoe really worth it? Is it really worth more than 20 hours of your time? This same calculation work if you are making $50 an hour or $100 an hour. Is that item worth your time? Buy an item or buy time? The answer is simple, buy time.

Buying Time Gives You Freedom

Knowing that you have bought back 2, 3, 4 years gives you confidence. If there is a recession, you have time to do what is necessary with no need to panic. Because you have bought time, you will not lose your home or other possessions. Buying time provides a security blanket, you are able to pay your bills and if needed, you have enough for any emergency that arises. You have the money, you have the time. This is the difference between those who live pay check to pay check and those with money in the bank. One group is critically worried about keeping their jobs, while the other group have their head up and looking for better opportunities. It is much more difficult to seek opportunities and take advantage of them when they arise if you are in a place of financial survival. 

The more time you have bought back, the easier it is to pursue your dreams and take advantage of opportunities as they arise.

Conclusion

Calculate your net worth. After calculating your net worth, divide your net worth by your average spend per year. The resulting number of years is what you have bought back. If you decide to quit your job today, this is how long you could potentially go without working if all else stays constant. Now knowing this, how many years have you bought back? Buying time is akin to financial independence. At a certain point, you will have bought back so much time that you will no longer need to work. This is the aim. Journey to financial independence.

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Tithe Yourself

Tithe Yourself Now

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Let us start by saying that this posting has nothing to do with religion. This posting focuses on tithing yourself. More specifically, from every paycheck, pay yourself first. Tithe yourself. Ensure that you are taking at least 10% from your paycheck and directing that portion to a personal account. If you do not tithe yourself, someone else will have a claim to your money. You work hard for your paycheck, why have others take a share before you do?

Tithe Yourself

The word tithe in Hebrew literally means tenth. By tithing yourself, we mean automatically taking at least 10% of your paycheck off the top and directing this amount to a personal account. Some folks religiously tithe to a church but often forget about tithing to themselves. It is important for your financial future that you tithe yourself.

When beginning on a journey to save or to establish an emergency fund, you may not be able to tithe 10% to yourself. Start small and build from there. The first step is to start. Once you start and begin to build a habit of tithing yourself, move on from just tithing yourself to tithing as much as you can to yourself. Aim to increase your tithing percentage up to 10% and once you hit the 10% mark, aim for 15% and beyond.

Tithe Yourself – Pay Yourself First

Tithe yourself is to encourage you to pay yourself first. You should pay yourself first because if you do not, you run the risk of not paying yourself at all. For example, after paying your bills and spending discretionarily, how much of your paycheck do you have remaining? If you have money left over, it does not take much for all that money to disappear due to frivolous spending? 

Many times, living above your means and going into debt can result when you do not pay yourself first. If you do not pay yourself first, it is likely that you will not budget and over spend, or you will simply spend what you have because you have not assigned a task to that money.

By paying yourself first, you will force yourself to live below your means and budget accordingly. By paying yourself first, you are assigning a task to every dollar that you make. Imagine upfront knowing that 10% of your paycheck is off limits. By reframing your paycheck this way, you know that you are limited to 90% of your paycheck. This means that all of your bills must be paid by this amount. Can you pay rent/mortgage, phone, cable, internet, subscriptions, power, and whatever other bills you may have from this amount? If the answer is yes, increase the amount of your paycheck that you are paying yourself. If the answer is no, you will be forced to cut back. You will be forced to make hard decisions. But trust me, it is worth it. Saving for your financial future is worth it. Tithing yourself is worth it.

Money in hand. Tithe yourself. Pay yourself first

You Are Not Being Selfish

It may sound selfish when it is said to pay yourself first or to tithe yourself. However, if you do not pay yourself first, you are always putting yourself behind someone else. You are putting your bills ahead of your financial future. You are also putting the temptation of instant gratification ahead of the delay gratification that will benefit your future. Instead of having others having a claim to your money, claim it as your own. You worked hard for it, so keep it and grow it to the betterment of you and your family.

If you still think that tithing yourself is selfish, then sometimes in life, you need to look out for yourself and your financial future. Because the simple fact is, if you fall on hard times, it is unlikely that there will be many people lining up to pay your bills or to house your family.

Conclusion

This posting focuses on tithing yourself. More specifically, from every paycheck, pay yourself first. Tithe yourself. Ensure that you are taking at least 10% from your paycheck and directing that portion to a personal account. For example, a personal investment account or a personal savings account. If you do not tithe yourself, someone else will have a claim to your money. You work hard for your paycheck, why have others take a share before you do? Reward yourself for your hard work by saving for your financial future.

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The racial wealth gap

Closing The Racial Wealth Gap

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You would have to be living under a rock to have not noticed or heard of the racial wealth gap in the United States. This article will not address biases or racism, implicit or explicit. The focus of this article will be on high level ways to address the racial wealth gap. More specifically, what can minority groups do to increase their wealth.

Racial Wealth Gap Explained

The Federal Reserve reports that “In the United States, the average Black and Hispanic or Latino households earn about half as much as the average White household and own only about 15 to 20 percent as much net wealth.” White households hold 87% of the wealth and account for only 68% of the population. Blacks account for 16% of the population, but owns only 2.9% of the wealth. Hispanics hold about 2.8% of the wealth and accounts for about 11% of the population. These numbers are very telling. 

A striking stat is that the 400 richest American billionaires have more total wealth than all 10 million Black American households combined.

On average, the net worth of a typical White family is about 10 times greater than the average net worth of a typical Black family. Based on some calculations, Black families are expected to have $0 net worth by 2053. The same is expected for Hispanic families just 20 years later.

All things being equal, we would expect the proportion of the population to equal the proportion of the wealth. This is however not the case. 

Wealth Building

To really look at the wealth gap, let us take a look at the wealth drivers in the United States. Huge wealth generation traditionally comes from entrepreneurship, ownership of real estate and stock market returns. 

To address the racial wealth gap, these three areas are prime targets.

Entrepreneurship

When we look at businesses, and entrepreneurship generally in the United States, Whites owns about 70% of businesses, Hispanics 14% and Blacks 6%. In view of the wealth statistics, this is not surprising. Additionally, for all the amazing work being done in the start-up space, less than 3% of total venture capital funding went to Black and Hispanic founders.

The industries that minorities operate in further exacerbates the racial wealth gap. Minorities generally own firms in the service and retail industry, many serving low-income and minority communities. Therefore, many minority enterprises have missed out and are missing out on the boom happening in the high skill sectors and the tech industry.

To combat the racial wealth gap, increase minority representation in entrepreneurship, the high skill workforce and the tech industry.

Stocks

On average, about half of Americans are investing in the stock market. For the most part, stock ownership is highly concentrated in the upper class and the highly educated. Greater than 90% of those in the top 10% based on income owns stocks. Looking at the top 10% in wealth, 94% of those individuals own stocks. Minorities are not well represented in the top 10% in wealth and income.

Looking at the racial breakdown, about 64% of Whites own stocks. Only 35% of Blacks and 24% of Hispanics owns stocks. Looking specifically at wealth, for Whites, 24% of assets are in the stock market. On the other-hand, only 13% of Blacks and 10% of Hispanics’ assets are in stocks. This have huge implications. 

What this states is that over the past decades of growth in the stock market, minorities participated less and have less of their funds in the stock market. The end result is that minorities have reaped and continues to reap significantly less benefits from the stock market boom. The losses are significant. 

Therefore, to close the wealth gap, increase minority participation in the stock market.

Real Estate

You cannot approach the effects of real estate on the wealth gap and not appreciate the effects of governmental policies such as redlining. The past policies of redlining have detrimentally affected the wealth of many in the United States to the benefit of others.

Today, Americans have a home ownership rate of about 65%. However, 73% of Whites own the home they live in. Only 48% of Hispanics and 42% of Blacks own their homes. But owning a home is not enough. Where you live matters. The value of the home you own matters. For minorities, it is a double whammy. Not only do minorities own less homes, minorities homes are less valuable.

It is no secret that home prices have been on an astronomical rise since the housing crash of 2008. Based on the above, this raise in prices and in turn equity benefits those who own, more specifically those who own high priced properties. 

To close the wealth gap, increase real estate ownership in minority communities.

Conclusion

To close the racial wealth gap will take a multi-pronged approach and it is a more complex issue than we have addressed. We have not addressed the effects of slavery, and Jim Crow segregation. We however, identify three areas that are the foundation for wealth generation in the United States. These areas are entrepreneurship, ownership of real estate and participation in the stock market.  By increasing minority participation in these areas, we can begin to address the racial wealth gap.

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This Is Why Athletes Go Broke

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Over the years, for professional athletes, we have seen astronomical contracts that have repeatedly broken records. We have also seen the sobering news that many athletes go broke. At times, we may fall into the trap and think, how can you go broke after earning hundreds of millions of dollars? But do not forget, a lot of our sports stars are young and have never had the life experiences that would have taught them how to manage money and plan for the future. 

Athletes Go Broke Due To Short Careers

For most athletes, once they sign the big contact, the financial mistakes are immediate. Some begin spending in anticipation of the contract or is out spending once signed. This happens in some cases because like us, many athletes are aware of the superstars who have decades long careers. Many rookies believe that they will continue to play their respective sports for years to come, earning an ever increasing salary. But this is not the case.

For the National Basketball Association (NBA), the average player lasts around 4.5 years. Like many other sports, making it to the NBA is hard, staying there is even harder. For the National Football League (NFL), the average career length is about 3.3 years. Let’s take a deeper look at the NFL. On average kickers and punters last 4.9 years, quarterbacks last about 4.4 years, cornerbacks last about 2.9 years, wide receivers last about 2.8 years and running backs last a dismal 2.5 years. Those in the National Hockey League (NHL) fare a bit better and last around 5 years. The average career of a Major League Baseball (MLB) player is about 5.6 years, and soccer players have careers of about 8 years.

It is therefore unsurprising that the average retirement age for MLB players is about 29.5, 28.2 for NHL players, 28 for NBA players, and 27.6 for NFL players.

If you have no transferable skills, lack financial discipline and your career lasts only a few years, you will have financial problems. No wonder athletes go broke.

Athletes Go Broke Due To Their Contracts:

Not all sports contracts are created equal. In some leagues, it is normal for the contracts to be guaranteed, but this is not the case for others. So when a player signs a contract for hundreds of millions of dollars, depending on the league, they may never receive the full amount.

Players’ contracts are guaranteed in Major League Soccer (MLS). For the most part, NBA, MLB and NHL contracts are also fully guaranteed. However, this is not the case for the NFL. For many NFL players, only a portion of their contract is guaranteed. This is very troubling as the NFL has one of the shortest career spans of the major sports. NFL players are faced with only a few years on average of playing in the league and also not having guaranteed contracts. Don’t forget, as a contact sport, NFL players also have a very high risk of injury.

Young And Dumb

If you received 100 million dollars upon your 18th birthday, in ten years, would you have more or less. The fact is, for many of us, at the age of 18-25, our sense of money is to get it and spend it. For many, this is the period of time where we spend a lot of time trying to impress the opposite sex. 

With money, comes the expensive cars, clothing and homes. At this age, as hormones rage, it may be a matter of time before kids. For many professional athletes, kids occur outside of wedlock which leads to child support and crazy exes. Think of your twenties but to the extreme. The fact is, not many of us could manage money in our twenties.

For athletes, it is a bit worst. Everyone you know, knows that you have money. Everyone around you potentially will have their hands out or will be reaching into your pockets. For so many athletes, it was family, agents, accountants or friends that stole from them. It is no wonder about 78% of professional athletes go broke after 3 years of retirement. Some professional athletes stand very little chance of building wealth in view of the people that are around them.

Most professional athletes just do not realize until it is too late – your career will be short, and your savings must last for the rest of your life.

What Can We Learn

What we can learn from athletes is that it is not about how much money you have, it is about how much you keep and grow. If you have no financial background or do not know how to mange your money, it is likely that you will lose it. No matter if it is 10 dollars or 10 million dollars.

As you move through your career, or your many careers, learn to manage and grow your money. You should learn who to trust and set boundaries with friends and family to ensure that your financial future is secure. Be the CEO of your life and your financial position. It is your money so take responsibility for what happens to it.

Conclusion

Over the years, for professional athletes, we have seen astronomical contracts that have repeatedly broken records. We have also seen the sobering news that many athletes go broke. At times, we may fall in the trap and think, how can you go broke after earning hundreds of millions of dollars? But do not forget, a lot of our sports stars are young and have never had the life experiences that would have taught them how to manage money and plan for the future. 

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Jealous friends and your wealth

Jealous Friends And Your Wealth

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While you are focus on your financial objectives, you may lose sight of one very important aspect, your friends. Based on the people around you, can you or will you be able to truly enjoy your wealth? Would your friends be happy and congratulatory of you achieving your financial objectives? Put simply, do you have jealous friends. 

Here, the assumption is that you are not purposely flaunting your wealth to belittle your friends. If you are doing this, then you are the bad friend, and your friends should be distancing themselves from you.

Money Changes Friendships

It is understandable that as time progresses the dynamics of our relationships change. Some friends will grow with you while others will grow away from you. But for those that you aspire to be apart of your life for the near and foreseeable future, how will they react to your wealth or you achieving financial independence? 

You will likely believe or have heard the refrain that true friends will not care. But the fact is, this is wishful thinking. Money changes the dynamics of all relationships. Just do a general search on the internet and you will see what I am talking about. As you transition in life, few of your old life will be with you in your new life.

While I know this, I do hope for you and me, that we are able to navigate achieving our goals and continue to have current friends around us that cheers us on. 

Cheap

If your aim is to achieve financial independence and you have tried to balance your expenses by trying to limit your spending, you will be called cheap. You will hear it multiple times from certain friends who may not completely understand what you are doing. You will be mocked for wearing the same pants or shirts that you have had for years. You will have to endure others around you having newer things, but if you are really about attaining your goal, you will not care. 

But a funny thing happens as you get closer to your goals. All the mocking and jeering will fade away to real questions. How close are you to retiring? What do you think about this financial move, what do you think about that? Your friends will have real interest in what you are doing. They will want to get to where you are, but there is an issue. You have been sacrificing and working on this path for years while they are seeing the end results and wanting that result.

This is where issues may develop.

Real Friends

As your dreams begin to come true, your real friends will continue to cheer you on. 

What I am saying here is that if you are low key, you will continue to be low key. If you believe in stealth wealth, you will likely continue to do the same things with slight changes. If you have achieved financial independence, well, you may change jobs or begin to pursue other things. It is unlikely that you will tell your friends your net worth. However, your real friends will know that you have enough based on your actions.

But your other friends may not see it that way. They will say that you have changed. If you decide to upgrade after being frugal comments will be made. You may also be accused of thinking that you are better than others. Overtime, some friendships will become strained.

Resentment may come from comparison, sometimes it may be linked to your friends own self-esteem and the way they view themselves. Especially if you and that friend started at the same financial point or you were from a lower economic position but have now surpassed them.

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Really friends or jealous friends

Why You May Have Jealous Friends

Some friends will be jealous friends because they do not want to see others, not even a friend, do better than they are doing. Some jealous friends are jealous because they love to cause chaos. Misery loves company. But if you have friends who have been with you for a long time and they become that jealous friend, it could be a matter of envy because you had the confidence to take the risks and make the sacrifices to achieve your goals.

How To Solve Or Preempt Jealous Friends

To prevent jealous friends, be aware and have the tough conversations. As you embark on your journey to financial independence and early retirement, note that not everyone is on the same journey. Be conscious of this. While you may be ostracized at first, note that the lifestyle that you will build for your family will likely be the envy of others. 

Once you have achieved your goals, you will likely have amply free time and the financial resources to do as you choose. You will be able to travel, do a job that you want, and spend time with family. You will be able to more so do the things that will make you and your family happy. Who doesn’t want that? This is all while your friends are toiling at a job that they hate and potentially have a life that they do not want. Be conscientious of this. Be understanding.

When friends ask about what you are doing, try to be patient and explain, do not judge their lifestyles. Do not fall into the “I told you so” mantra. 

Above all, live your life as they live there’s and if a friendship needs to end, it needs to end. Do not put yourself or your family in a terrible situation to maintain a hostile friendship.

Conclusion

While you are focus on your financial objectives, you may lose sight of one very important aspect, your friends. Based on the people around you, can you or will you be able to truly enjoy your wealth? Would your friends be happy and congratulatory of you achieving your financial objectives? Put simply, do you have jealous friends. 

Whatever the situation, do what is best for you and your family.

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Nerds run the world

Why Nerds Run The World

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Look around, think about who is making all the calls, then look behind that person. Typically, it is a nerd. For starters, look at the richest persons in the world. Look at the most powerful countries in the world, advances are made by nerds. Politically, whether you agree with one party or another, they are funded by nerds on both sides. The fact is, while there may be debates on the value of going to college, there is no doubt that nerds are running the world. Further, as we are in the computer age, nerds will continue to do so. Crypto and the metaverse are only recent examples of the power of being a nerd.

The Cool Kids

There is a saying, “he who laughs last laughs best.” For those who are intellectually gifted, this is certainly true. Cool kids have fun early in life, but it is the nerds who excel as adults. Whether your are the sports star or the cool kid that connects well with others, your early social years will be great, primarily in high school. However, for many cool kids, this will be the height of their influence. For nerds, high school is typically the last years of hell. Once high school is over, the world opens up, because intellect is valued.

Nerds

Let us look at the richest people in the world. Warren Buffet, Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, Elon musk, they are all nerds. The fact is, they are at the cutting edge. They are coming up with new ideas and inventions that revolutionize the world and have in turn made them very wealthy. As is often true, money is power. With their monetary power and position, nerds are able to influence every part of life.

It is this wealth that is being used to run the world. When you have billions of dollars at your disposal, your pet projects are very impactful. Whether this is to go to space or to create a foundation to pursue a specific purpose. With funding, what is important to you become important to others. Your dreams shape the world that not only you live in, but that we all live in.

Crypto is one of the newest examples. Let us think of bitcoin that only a few years ago was worthless. Today, there are many different crypto currencies and this invention has made many millionaires. For the most part, crypto was invented by nerds and has become mainstream, making many ridiculously wealthy. We also now have NFTs, which are being sold for millions and let us not forget about the newly created metaverse. As the computer information age pushes on, nerds will continue to dominate.

Political Reach

Nerds are not only successful in the business world, but also the political world. A lot of those in political power today were not well adjusted in their earlier life. Yes, they were and still are nerds. But even if some of today’s political figures were well adjusted, look at who these politicians take their direction from. They take their direction not from the masses, but from the wealthy who are likely to be nerds. To run political campaigns, you need money. As noted above, who have the money? Nerds through their business successes have plenty of discretionary income to donate and shape the agenda of every political campaign. Even when you look to todays sport stars, look at who are employing them. Nerds are the owner of sport teams, sport arenas and are the bosses of the jocks you watch in amazement.

Why are they so successful?

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Reasons

Not being in the in crowd have a lot of advantages. You read that correctly. Not being popular can be an advantage in life. It teaches you important lessons in survival and how to be self reliant.

The fact that many nerds are not in the in crowd allow them to spend more time working on their dreams. Nerds have more time to be themselves and know themselves because they do not have to succumb to social norms. They are essentially able to figure out who they are and what they are good at and just do it. Nerds have the freedom to become experts in the difficult, the new and the cutting edge.

Further, most nerds find comfort in knowledge. So not being invited to all the parties or social activities give nerds more time to hone their skills, in this case knowledge of a subject. They become masters of a subject area. Once they are masters of a subject area and confident in their skills they are motivated to show the world.

Because many nerds have been ostracized or physically intimidated, they operate with a chip on their shoulder and have a competitive drive to prove and show how good they are. All this leads to people who are very confident at what they do once they find that thing. Often times, these nerds are some of the most ruthless individuals that you will come across. They strive to be the best and often times, do not accept failure. Think of Elon Musk, Steve Jobs and Bill Gates.

These are some of the reasons why so many nerds have achieved the highest of business success, amass billions and strongly influence our every day life. 

Conclusion

Look around, think about who is making all the calls, then look behind that person. Typically, it is a nerd. For starters, look at the richest persons in the world. Look at the most powerful countries in the world, advances are made by nerds. Politically, whether you agree with one party or another, they are funded by nerds on both sides. The fact is, while there may be debates on the value of going to college, there is no doubt that nerds are running the world. Further, as we are in the computer age, nerds will continue to do so. Crypto and the metaverse are only recent examples of the power of being a nerd.

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Friends

Friends Influence Your Success And Wealth

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Show me your five closest friends and I can provide a very accurate description of you. The fact of the matter is that the friends we have not only tells us who we are generally. Our friends influence who we are and who we will become. Yes, those closest to you will impact who you will become. Peer pressure  in proximity is strong, so is the influence of mentors and leaders. Choose your friends wisely because they will influence not only your career success but also the wealth you will attain in the future.

Friends

We may deny it, but those around us have the power to influence us. We are constantly picking up on cues from those around us. These cues subconsciously inform and shape our behavior. These behaviors over time become habits, and our habits determine who we become. The influences of our friends are not only behavioral. Who we have around us affect our world view, the way we think and the way we feel about ourselves. As such, our success and in a sense our wealth in life will come down to the people we choose to spend our time with.

Think for a second about the company kept by your financial heroes. Now, contrast this with the financially illiterate and those living on the edge. The friends kept by these two groups are diametrically oppose.

At this moment, consider who are your closest friends. Think of their attributes and how these friends have affected your life. What habits do these friends have that you want? Also identify attributes that you do not wish to adapt? Mostly, do you need new friends? 

Success

To be successful, be around successful people. If you want to be in shape, hang out with those who are healthy. If you want to be happy, surround yourself with happy people. We become those who are around us.

If you want to build wealth and become financially independent, do not have a circle of people around you who are struggling and lack financial discipline. Instead, associate yourself with positive, focused people. Be friends with those who are committed to constant improvement and the pursuit of the best in life. Have friends who will facilitate your journey to wealth and financial independence.

Choose Your Friends Wisely

Remember, while you may not be able to choose your family, you do choose your friends. To be friends with another person, you must agree to have this individual in your life. And while the decision to cut people out of your life may be difficult, tough decisions must be made for you to achieve your goals. 

Be the CEO of your life and demote or fire your friends as needed to achieve your goals. If not, do not be surprise when your ambitions, goals and position in life are at the same level as those around you.

Choose your friends wisely

Conclusion

Show me your five closest friends and I can provide a very accurate description of you. The fact of the matter is that the friends we have not only tells us who we are generally. Our friends influence who we are and who we will become. Yes, those closest to you will impact who you will become. Peer pressure  in proximity is strong, so is the influence of mentors and leaders. Choose your friends wisely because they will influence not only your career success but also the wealth you will attain in the future.

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Retirement plan

Do not Become Someone Else’s Retirement Plan

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No matter how hard you work or how much money you earn, you are only a few bad choices from finding yourself in the poor house. Sometimes, the decisions that we make are in view of perceived obligations. For example, many financial decisions are made in view of obligations to family and friends. On your path to financial independence and early retirement, do not become someone’s retirement plan.

Focus On Your Retirement Plan

As the statement goes, put on our oxygen masks first before the person next to  you, including family. This also applies to your plans for retirement. You may be able to make head way in saving toward your retirement by living below your means, saving, and investing. However, it is also easy for a family member or two to constantly ask, manipulate or steal what you have saved. The stories are easily available if you perform a simply search, and should serve as a warning.

What Is Yours Is Theirs

There are so many stories of an individual or a nuclear family making progress by living below their means, saving and investing over time. As this family rises and increases their wealth, it is only natural for families and friends to notice, and notice they will. We can try all we want to hide success, but others will notice how you live your life. While you may try to be the millionaire next door, your close family knows better. While you may drive the standard car and live in a standard house, your family will be well aware of your job and will likely have researched your salary. It is only a matter of time before assumptions are made with regard to your wealth. With assumptions, it is common for others to begin to think that what is yours is also theirs.

As knowledge of your life is shared by family and close friends, you will be seen in a different light. When financial hiccups occurs, you become their bank. If they are having issues with housing, they will show up at your door. If you do not take steps to stop the initial requests or actions, you will pay for it later.

Of course, the proximity to family and friends will matter. The closer you are to those with a specific personality type, the faster the devolution into others thinking that what is yours is theirs. The further away you are, the less interaction and the less issues you may have.

Blocking retirement plan
Do not allow others to block your financial flow

Reason Does Not Matter

It really does not matter if you and others all had the same opportunities. It does not really matter if you choose to live below your means while others live it up. You may sacrifice all you want to maintain your life and that of your family, but it is simply human nature for those around you to think and believe that what is yours is also theirs. Especially when others believe that you have more than you need or that you do not deserve what you have.

What To Do

The fact is, you must learn to say no. You cannot become someone else’s retirement plan. You must stand up for yourself and your family. Others may claim that you are mean, but you must put your oxygen mask on before others. You cannot find yourself bank rolling other peoples lives, especially if these individuals do not understand how hard you have worked for what you have. 

It is all around us. Others have nice cars, vacations and homes that dwarfs the size and costs of yours. However, these are the first to reach out for aid and have a deep seated belief that what is yours is theirs. When times are hard, why do you have so much and they have so little, even though when times were good they had more than you and in effect wasted it.

We are not saying that you should be selfish and not help others. Help others and give. Success is not achieved alone and in isolation. What we are saying is, know what you are doing. Know the consequences of your actions. Know what saying yes today will mean for tomorrow. Do not become another person’s retirement plan. Know when to say no.

Conclusion

No matter how hard you work or how much money you earn, you are only a few bad choices from finding yourself in the poor house. Sometimes, the decisions that we make are in view of perceived obligations. For example, many financial decisions are made in view of obligations to family and friends. On your path to financial independence and early retirement, do not become someone’s retirement plan.

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Just say no

Now, Just Say No

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When was the last time that you suck it up and just say no to your children? As we move toward the next year, again we enter the season of spending. One of the major driving force behind the excessive spending during this time of the year is the effort to please our children. However, spending money that you do not have not only hurts you, it also hurts your children. By saying no and living within your needs, you will be teaching your children delayed gratification, self control and impact their future for the better.

Saying One Thing And Doing Another

It is always amazing how the same folks who announce that they do not have the funds typically have the latest and greatest. It is amazing how the co-worker who is struggling financially has the required funds to take a vacation. It is also interesting how not only do they have the latest toys and gadgets, but so do their children. Where are they getting it from? 

Let us not speculate. However, it does offer an interesting view into other people’s habits. This is not new, the act of saying one thing, yet doing another. With this in mind, why are we surprise when our children act in a similar manner?

Just Say No To Your Children

It is always difficult to tell our children no. It is difficult for us to punish them. However, at a certain point we must perform our roles as parents for their growth and development. Just as you work with your children with their school work, teaching them how to play a sport or how to be a contributing part of society, so must we say no when it is required.  Financial literacy should be apart of their development.

In the holiday season, just say no. Whenever you are asked to spend what you do not have, just say no. We understand that this is easy to say but difficult to do. This is especially the case when your children have friends who are receiving the new and latest toys. In some cases we satisfy our children’s wants to prevent a tantrum or a melt down. For many parents, it is also a matter of ensuring that their children fit in socially. However, if we are teaching our children to have what others have no matter the cost, financially and otherwise, are we really doing them a service?

If our children’s friends have the newest and most expensive phones or other electronic devices, should your children also have those items? If you cannot afford it, you must have a conversation with your children. It may be the most opportune time to discuss money and how money works.

saying no
saying no

Think Long Term

If we are purchasing material items that we cannot afford, we are not only putting our financial future in jeopardy. Our acts are also putting our children’s financial future in jeopardy as well. We are essentially teaching our children that they can purchase things that they cannot afford.  Do not be surprise by our children’s decision to put things on credit and overspend in the future. Note that our children are watching. Our children model their behaviors after what they see and hear. Believe it our not, we can have a huge influence on their future spending habits. Consider the current state of finance today, it is no wonder we have so many finically illiterate folks. 

Let us make our children’s financial literacy apart of what we are teaching. Let us act as parents. Like with school and so many other tasks, we are the parent and not your children’s friend. Let us aim to try and find a way to teach them such that they can in the future be better than we are. Let us give them the tools to make better decisions.

Conclusion

When was the last time that you suck it up and just say no to your children? As we move toward another year, again we enter the season of spending. One of the major driving force behind the excessive spending during this time of the year is the effort to please our children. However, spending money that you do not have not only hurts you, it also hurts your children. By saying no and living within your needs, you will be teaching your children delayed gratification, self control and impact their future for the better.

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